There is so much information out on the internet about manifestation and the Law of Attraction. No wonder you sometimes might get confused in what to believe! I’m on a quest to help High Vibe Lightworkers to live in the presence of the Power of Love, and help them to use their gifts to make a difference in the world.
Manifestation has always been a topic very close to my heart, and something I started to study when I was just seven years old. I was fascinated by the fact, that miracles didn’t just happened in movies, but also was a very big part of our life. The way that I’m clairvoyant and psychic is that I see, feel, hear, know, sense and experience EVERYTHING like energies, frequencies, vibrations, and impulses. I can literally see how everything and everyone is energetically connected, and how we put energetic “footprints” all over the place. This gives me a very important insight into how manifesting works!
In this article will I bust some false beliefs about manifestation, that I often meet.
#1 Wish and You will Receive.
If you’ve read The Secret (which I love, by the way – I’m featured in Rhonda Byrne’s book “How The Secret Changed My Life” from 2016) or any of the many books about the Law of Attraction, you’re probably familiar with the 3-step manifestation process presented in those books.
While that is part of the manifestation process, there are still some huge missing points. That’s probably why so many people have troubles to make it work in their life.
It’s not enough to ask and believe, and then expect to receive. The Universe doesn’t have a magical Fairy Godmother who appears out of nowhere and gains all your wishes while you’re sitting on your tush and watching Keeping Up with the Kardashians. No matter how much you want that $20 million in your bank account, they don’t magically appear out of the blue.
Powerful Belief #1:
If you want something in your life, you must take guided action steps every day, that would bring you closer to your desired outcome.
#2 Visualization and Goal-setting will give you what you want.
Goal-setting and visualization are two of the most common tools in manifestation. Know what you want, and visualize that you already have it. If it works for you, great! But I’d found in the studies I had made, shows that visualization and goal-setting can have a negative effect on your manifestations.
By using visualization to see yourself driving the car you’re dreaming of, you’re with that specific person you want to be with, or having all the money you desire for, you’ll over time grow attached to the outcome. Remember, the subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between fantasy and reality. With visualization, you’re manipulating your mind to believe in something you want it to believe in, and when the reality shows up differently, you get confused. That’s not manifesting, that’s manipulation!
Goal-setting becomes a problem, when you are so determined on having a specific outcome on a particular date, leaving absolutely no room for the Universe to work her magic. Goals are fine, and it’s amazing that you have something you want to achieve. But when the goals are stressing you, and you’re beating yourself up for not having accomplished your to-do list, then we have a problem. And! The Universe often has a plan far greater than your own plan. When you try to control the outcome, then you block for miracles.
Powerful Belief #2:
When you’re trying to control or manipulate something to happen, you’re blocking the abundant flow from the Universe. Always know, that the Universe has a plan far greater than you can imagine. All you have to do is to trust that your desires are taken care of.
#3 It’s not spiritual to want more money, success, and prosperity.
When I started as a Spiritual Teacher in 2008, only 18 years old, was one of my topics Money Manifestations. Oh Dear Lord, I got so verbally beaten up by strangers on the internet, claiming how non-spiritual and bad money, success, and prosperity was. SO many judgments upon successful and wealthy people! Raised in a spiritual and metaphysics family, was it just natural for me to talk about money, success, and prosperity along other spiritual topics. I did not (and still don’t) see anything wrong with talking about money, success, and prosperity in a spiritual context. Quite the reverse, actually!
To explain this, we have to look at quantum physics. Quantum physics is a well-known and highly respected science. In my opinion is quantum physics the bridge between the spiritual world and the natural science. Studies in quantum physics prove that everything is energy, and therefore, everything vibrates on a frequency. If everything is energy, then money, success, and prosperity is also energy! Money is an exchanges energy that balance out the energy between the giver and receiver, so both parts still have an equal worth of energy. If one just receives and don’t give something in return, then they will block the equal flow of energy, causing the others to have less. If one just gives, and never receive something in return, they will run out of energy to give. Both will create unbalance and ultimate block the flow of energy. That’s one of the reasons I’m not a big fan of sales and bargain. I think it straight up disrespectful to want to pay less than something is worth.
Powerful Belief #3:
If you value an item enough, you’ll also be more than happy to exchange the energy by paying full price. It’s a matter of respecting the time, effort, skills and energy the developer had put into creating that item, no matter if it a product or service.
#4 It’s your destiny to suffer in life.
We’re manifesting all the time! Our thoughts, emotions, and actions create the energy that we send out in the Universe. The Universe is like a gigantic mirror that reflects that energy back to us as manifestations. Every person, circumstances, health situation, financial situation, relationship, work situation, etc. is a manifestation of your very own thoughts, emotions, and actions. That’s why it makes no sense to play the role of a victim. Remember, my job is to help you to live in the Power of Love and be a High Vibe Lightworker, and the only way I can do that, is by telling you the truth about how manifestation works, and how powerful your thoughts are.
It doesn’t really matter, how your life has been so far. And to be honest with you; the very fact that you’re guided to my work and recognize yourself as a Lightworker, is a good indicator of you have gone through some tough times in your life. You had been challenged and maybe is in a process right now where you have to be strong.
There is no pre-written plan or destiny for anyone. Every single one of us has a Free Will, and we are free to decide what life we want to live. No limitations. It’s all a matter of willingness to change and commit to that change. If something in your life doesn’t serve you, it’s your responsibility to make that change.
Powerful Belief #4:
You’re able to write your own destiny! You have the power to design the life you want to have. When life challenges you and it’s painful, know you have the power to transform the energy and turn it into something good. It requires some practice, but it can be done! I’m teaching this skill my upcoming project, so make sure to join my mailing list to be the first to know when the project is launching.
#5 The more you give, the more you will receive.
One thing that is super common with Lightworkers, and especially Earth Angels, is their habit to put others’ needs before their own. A lot of Lightworkers and Earth Angels are dealing with people-pleasing and codependency, and some to the extent that it becomes really unhealthy for them. As mentioned above; if you’re in the habit of just give, give and give all the time, and you don’t allow yourself to receive anything in return, the abundant flow of the Universe will get blocked. You will run empty because there is nothing to fill your supply up.
The of the more you give, the more you will receive is yet another misconception from The Secret. I believed this myself for many years and combined with I’m a recovering codependent; I just gave, gave and gave to the point that I because of physical illness. When I stop giving, a lot of those I thought was my friends disappeared. Still to this day, they are only checking in on me when they want something from me. That’s not real friendships! As High Vibe Lightworkers, we must practice the skill of setting healthy boundaries. Both in our relationships, but also in how much we give.
Powerful Belief #5:
There are no limits for how much to give, but if you don’t make sure to receive in return to balance out the exchange of energy, then you’ll run out of supply, and you will create lack in those areas where you just give away. It’s all about balance! Look at it like a bank account; if you don’t make sure that a certain amount of money is coming in each month, then you won’t be able to pay your bills. At some point you’ll ran out of money, if you don’t make sure to receive money. That’s the exact same thing with the energy of any other manifestations. Healthy balance is the secret key!